Ukuxhashazwa kwe-inthanethi sekuyinkinga enkulu futhi ekhulayo njengoba ukuxhumana kwedijithali kuqhubeka nokukhula. Ngokungafani nokuxhashazwa okuvamile, okwakuvame ukuphela uma ingane isiphumile esikoleni, ukuxhashazwa kwe-inthanethi kungabalandela yonke indawo—ngemiyalezo yombhalo, ezinkundleni zokuxhumana, nakwezinye izinkundla zedijithali. Lokhu kuvezwa njalo akushiyi isikhala sokukhululeka, okwenza umthelela wemizwa ube mkhulu futhi uhlale isikhathi eside.
Iziqhwaga zanamuhla zisebenzisa ubuchwepheshe ukuthumela imiyalezo elimazayo, ukusabalalisa imibono emibi, noma ukuhlasela abanye ngokuphindaphindiwe ngamadivayisi eselula. Ngenxa yalokhu, abazali kudingeka baqaphele kakhulu kunanini ngaphambili ngezingozi izingane zabo ezibhekene nazo ku-inthanethi. Ukuqonda ukuthi ukuxhashazwa okusekelwe kumbhalo kusebenza kanjani isinyathelo sokuqala sokuvimbela. Ngokuhlala unolwazi nokugcina ukuxhumana okuvulekile, abazali bangabasekela kangcono izingane zabo futhi bathathe isinyathelo ngesikhathi esifanele ukuze bazivikele ekuxhumaneni okuyingozi kwedijithali.
Kuyini ukuthumela imiyalezo yokuhlukumeza?
Ukuxhashazwa ngemiyalezo sekuphenduke inkinga enzima phakathi kwentsha nentsha. Kungaba nemiphumela ebhubhisayo, futhi abanakekeli bangase bangazi ukuthi kuyenzeka. Abanakekeli banomsebenzi obalulekile wokulwa nemiyalezo yoxhashazwa nokusiza intsha eye yaba yizisulu zokuhlushwa ngemiyalezo esheshayo.
Ngokwencazelo, ukuxhashazwa ngombhalo ukuthumela imiyalezo enesihluku, ehlazisayo, engamanga, noma elimazayo kumuntu othile noma ngomuntu osebenzisa omakhalekhukhwini. Lokhu kungahlanganisa nokuthumelelana imiyalezo yocansi noma ukuthumela imiyalezo esheshayo eveza inkanuko kothile noma ngomuntu othile.
Ubani oyisisulu sokuxhashazwa ngombhalo?
Noma yimuphi umntwana ofunda esikoleni noma esikoleni samabanga aphezulu angaba yisisulu somhlukumezi. Akukho lutho olubeka ingane noma ingane engozini yokuhlushwa. Kodwa-ke, ngokuvamile, iziqhwaga ezibusayo zizohlasela noma yimuphi umuntu obhekwa “njengohlukile”, ongenamandla, ongajwayelekile, ozolile, noma obonakala eyisisulu esisobala.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi lesi simemezelo sithini, intsha isengozini enkulu. Ukuhlukunyezwa kwentsha kanye nokuxhashazwa ngemiyalezo kuvame kakhulu phakathi kwentsha kunaphakathi kwentsha enolwazi oluningi.
Amadoda asemasha ngokuvamile ahlukunyezwa amanye amadoda, kuyilapho amantombazane ebika ukuthi ahlukunyezwa amadoda namantombazane.
Izingane ezikhuluphele, ezithambekele ngendlela ehlukile, noma ezikhubazekile zinamathuba angu-63% okuhlushwa kunezinye izingane. Ngaphezu kwalokho, izingane ezinamahloni kakhulu, ezingavamile kakhulu, “ezibonakala” zingafani nezezinye izingane, noma ezincane ngeminyaka yazo, nazo ziyizisulu ezisebenzayo.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, intsha kanye nentsha ingase ihlukunyezwe kuye ngezici ezahlukene, isibonelo, ukuthambekela kobulili, uhlanga, inkolo, ukubukeka, izingubo, ukugunda izinwele, ukugcizelela, noma yiluphi uphawu umuntu ohlukumezayo alubona njengoluhlukile, oluxhashazwayo, noma oluqondiswe ngempumelelo.
Yimiphi imiphumela emibi ezolethwa yimiyalezo yokuxhashazwa?
- Intsha ehlukunyezwa njalo ngedijithali nakanjani izodlala i-hooky, ithole amaphuzu amabi, ilahlekelwe yintshisekelo yokuya esikoleni, noma isebenzise imithi notshwala.
- Ukuxhashazwa nge-inthanethi kanye nokuthumelelana imiyalezo kungaba nemiphumela eminingi emibi kumuntu okukhulunywa ngaye, njengokudumazeka, ukungakhululeki, ukuzihlukanisa nabantu, unya, ukuzibulala, kanye nokufa.
- Ukuxhashazwa nge-inthanethi kanye nokuthumelelana imiyalezo kungathinta kabi umuntu ohlukumezayo, umuntu okukhulunywa ngaye, kanye nababukeli (abantu abakubonayo).
- Abantu abahlushwayo bangase babhekane nokukhathazeka nokudabuka, okungaqhubeka kuze kube yilapho sebekhulile.
Ukuthambekela kwabo kokudla nokozela kungathonywa, okubangela izinkinga eziningi zempilo zomzimba. - Bazophuthelwa yisikole nakanjani, okungalimaza ukuphumelela kwabo esikoleni.
- Iziqhwaga zivame ukuhlanganyela ekuziphatheni okuyingozi noma okunonya, okuhlanganisa ukusetshenziswa kabi kotshwala/isidambisi-zinhlungu, ubudlova bentsha, izenzo zobugebengu, nokuba nokhahlo kubalingani bomshado kanye nabantu abahambisana nabo ngokomzwelo lapho sebekhulile.
- Ababukeli bangaba nezinkinga ezifanayo nokulimala okungekuhle, okuhlanganisa ukuphuthelwa yisikole, ukudabuka, kanye nokwesaba.
Yiziphi izimpawu zokuxwayisa zomuntu ohlukumezayo kanye nesisulu sokuxhashazwa ngombhalo?
Abantu abahlukunyezwayo banganikeza noma yikuphi kwalokhu okusikisela:
- Amanxeba, awakwazi ukucaciswa
- Izinguquko ekudleni nasekuphumuleni
- Ukuzenzisa ngesifo noma ukuzisholo ukuthi uzizwa ubuthakathaka
- I-Migraines kanye nobuhlungu besisu
- Ukugcina ibanga elifanele ezimweni zomphakathi, okuhlanganisa nabantu ababengabangane babo ngaphambili
- Ukuzethemba okunciphile
- Ukuzilimaza noma eminye imikhuba eyingozi
- Ukulahlekelwa yimpahla
- Ukwandisa ukusebenza kwezemfundo
Abantu abahlukumeza abanye bangase banikeze noma yikuphi kwalokhu kusikisela:
- Ukungena ezimpini
- Ukuthola izinkinga ezengeziwe esikoleni
- Ukugcina kunamandla kakhulu
- Ukuba nabangane abahlukumezayo
- Babonakala bephikisana ngokudumile kwabo kanye nokusabalala kwabo
Kuyini umthelela wababukeli?
Ababukeli ngabantu ababona noma bezwa ukuhlukunyezwa. Umbukeli angaba usizo (ngokuthola usizo kumuntu omdala othembekile, noma, uma kungenzeka, angenelele ngokuphepha ngokuvikela umuntu okukhulunywa ngaye noma acele ukuthi umhlukumezi ayeke) noma angaphephile (ngokumemeza isiqhwaga esibusayo, ukuhlanganyela, noma ukubekezelela isimo ngokungenzi lutho).
Yini abazali abangayenza ukuze bavikele izingane ekuxhashazweni ngemiyalezo?
Ngokungafani nokuxhashazwa ngokomzimba, ukuxhashazwa ngombhalo kuyimfihlo kakhulu futhi akulula ukukubona noma ukukuvimbela ngabazali, okwenza kube nzima ngabazali ukuthatha izinyathelo zokuqapha. Noma kunjalo, kunezinto abazali abangazenza ukusiza izingane zigweme ukuxhashazwa ngombhalo.
- Yazi abangane bezingane zakho.
Abangane abantwana bakho abanabo empilweni yangempela kungaba yibo abahlukumeza izingane zakho ngemiyalezo. Yazi ukuthi izingane zakho zichitha isikhathi nobani ukuze ubone labo abasolisayo futhi uvimbele izingane zakho ekudlaleni nabo ukuze ugweme izinkinga ezengeziwe.
- Yiba ukusekelwa okuthembekile kakhulu kwezingane zakho.
Izingane zakho ezihlukunyezwa ngombhalo zingase zisongelwe yilowo ohlukumezayo futhi zicelwe ukuba zingabatsheli abazali bazo ngakho. Ngakho-ke, abazali kufanele baqinisekise njalo ukuthi izingane zabo ziyazi ukuthi zingahlala ziza kubo ukuze zithole usizo. Ngaphandle kwalokho, izingane zingase zingabiki ukuhlukunyezwa futhi zinamathele kulowo ohlukumezayo isikhathi eside.
- Khombisa izingane ukuthi zingabhekana kanjani nokuxhashazwa.
Ukulungiselela izingane zakho izinto ezingase zenzeke kuzo kuyisivikelo esingcono kakhulu. Zitshele ngezinhlobo ezahlukene zokuxhashazwa nezindlela zokubhekana nakho, ukuze zikhethe izindlela ezifanele zokuzivikela.
- Sebenzisa ubuchwepheshe besimanje ukuthola ukuxhashazwa kombhalo.
Uma izingane zenqaba ukukutshela futhi zenza izinto ngendlela exakile, abazali bangaphendukela kubuchwepheshe besimanje ukuze bathole usizo. i-mSpy kungasiza abazali ukuthola umbhalo osolisayo emlayezweni wengane ukuze bathole ukuthi izingane zabo ziyaxhashazwa yini.
Indlela Engcono Kakhulu Yokuvikela Izingane Zakho Ekuxhashazweni Ngombhalo
Ukuze kusizwe abazali bavikele izingane zabo ekuxhashazweni ngemiyalezo noma ukuxhashazwa nge-inthanethi, ithimba le i-mSpy I-Explicit Content Detection ikwazi ukuqapha okuqukethwe kwemiyalezo yezingane ezinkundleni zokuxhumana ezifana ne-Facebook, WhatsApp, Instagram, Snapchat, LINE, Kik, Twitter, YouTube, kanye ne-Gmail. Abazali bangenza ngokwezifiso uhlu lwamagama abangathanda ukuthola izaziso. Lesi sici siwusizo kakhulu uma kuziwa ekuvikeleni izingane ezinsongweni ezingaba khona ku-inthanethi.
- Ukulandelela Indawo kanye nokubiyela indawo
- Isivimbeli sohlelo lokusebenza
- Ukuhlunga iwebhu
- Ukulandelela i-SMS kanye namakholi
- Isethingi Yokulawula Kwabazali Ehlakaniphile
Kunezinye izici eziningi ze- i-mSpy , njengoba kuxoxwe ngezansi:
1. Ukulandelela Indawo Okuqhubekayo kanye Nokubiyela Indawo
Ungalandelela ukuthi ingane yakho ikuphi bese ubona umlando ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ayikaze iye “ezindaweni ezingajwayelekile”. Setha ama-Geo-fence njengezindawo ezivikelwe, bese uthola isexwayiso lapho ingane yakho ingena noma iphuma ezindaweni ezivikelwe nge-geo.
2. Isivimbeli Sohlelo Lokusebenza
Hlola ukuthi izingane zakho zisebenzisa kanjani izingcingo zazo, ukuthi yiziphi izinhlelo zokusebenza ezisetshenziswa kakhulu, ukuthi yiziphi izinhlelo zokusebenza ezifakiwe nezikhishiwe, ukuthi izinhlelo zokusebenza zezokuxhumana zisetshenziswa kanjani, nokuningi.
3. Ukuhlunga Okuqukethwe Kwewebhu
Dlulisa ingane yakho ezingozini ezingaba khona ku-inthanethi ngokuvimbela noma yiziphi izingosi ezingathandeki noma ezingafaneleki ezinezinto ezilimazayo, isibonelo, ukuzijabulisa kwabantu abadala, ukubheja, ubudlova, njalo njalo.
4. Ukulandelela i-SMS kanye namakholi
Ukuhlola imiyalezo kanye nezingcingo efonini yengane yakho ye-iPhone noma ye-Android kuzoba lula kakhulu i-mSpy Ingakwazi ukulandelela imiyalezo yombhalo kanye neminye imininingwane ukude ngaphandle kokwazi.
5. Ukulawula Okukude Okuguquguqukayo kanye Nokulungiselelwa Kokwenza Okuthandwa Nguwe
Uma uhlelo lokusebenza seluqalisiwe, ungafaka konke ngendlela evumelana nezimo zegajethi.
6. Mboza izinhlobo eziningi zamadivayisi
i-mSpy isekela amadivayisi e-Android, iOS, Mac, kanye ne-Windows. Ukubhalisa okukodwa kungasetshenziswa ukuqapha amadivayisi ahlukene afinyelela kwangu-30 ngesikhathi esisodwa.
Isiphetho
Ekuphetheni, ukuvikela izingane ekuxhashazweni ngemiyalezo kudinga kokubili ukuqwashisa kanye namathuluzi afanele okuhlala unolwazi. Njengoba imiyalezo elimazayo ingafihlwa ezingxoxweni zangasese noma isuswe ngokushesha, kuvame ukuba nzima ngabazali ukuthola izimpawu zokuqala zokuxhashazwa nge-inthanethi ngokubuka kuphela. Yingakho ukuhlanganisa ukuxhumana okuvulekile nokuqapha kwedijithali kungenza umehluko omkhulu ekugcineni izingane ziphephile.
Amathuluzi afana i-mSpy kunikeza abazali ukuqonda okujulile ngomsebenzi wemiyalezo wengane yabo, kubasize ukuthi bathole izingxoxo ezisolisayo noma ukuxhumana okungekuhle ngesikhathi. Ngokuvumela ukufinyelela imiyalezo yombhalo, imininingwane yokuxhumana, kanye namaphethini okusebenzisa, kuba lula ukubona izimpawu zesixwayiso nokungenelela ngaphambi kokuba izimo ziqhubeke. Lokhu kubonakala okwengeziwe kunganikeza isiqinisekiso futhi kunike amandla abazali ukuthi baqondise izingane zabo ngempumelelo enkulu.
Nakuba izici ezithile zingase zihluke kuye ngohlelo lwedivayisi, ikakhulukazi phakathi kwe-Android ne-iOS, inani lilonke lihlala liqinile. Ekugcineni, ukusebenzisa ikhambi lokuqapha elithembekile kanye nokwethenjwa kanye nesiqondiso kungasiza ekuvimbeleni ukuxhashazwa okusekelwe kumbhalo futhi kuqinisekise indawo yedijithali ephephile yezingane.
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